The Art of Cultivating a Creative Life

by rosedeniz

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Twenty women sit around long tables pushed together in a corner of a café in Istanbul on a Saturday morning. The clink of coffee cups, the murmur of orders being placed. I pace around a little bit, preparing myself physically and mentally to talk about creativity to this group of professional women that I have been a part of since 2007.

The painter Robert Motherwell reportedly always started his day with figure drawing, though in his finished work, literal figures are scarce. He did it because it got him up and moving, pushing kinetic energy around until the good stuff could come out. He knew the power of drawing.
I have planned a drawing exercise for this reason, and I move around the room, saying hello to all the women who have come: a mother with her 6 month old baby and her 4-year old daughter, a salon owner, lawyers, entrepreneurs, writers, bakers and teachers.
The title of my talk is The Art of Cultivating a Creative Life. I hand out sheets of paper and pencils, and we do one of Betty Edward’s exercises from Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain. I do this to dispel the “I can’t draw” so “I’m not creative” myth. I also choose this exercise because it relates to perception. How we think we see a chair, a hand, a house, but what we really see is a symbol. By slowing down our brains, we trick it into overriding its impulse to see the symbol of a hand and not its network of lines, hangnails, smooth nail beds, and curve of the thumb. Some women grasp a shift in their awareness immediately, others later as I talk about the application of a seemingly simple exercise to the borderlands of work and home, to professionalism, to adapting to life as an expat in Turkey.
I talk about navigating new territory abroad. About being faced with making decisions in the gray areas of bi-cultural life. I talk about reinvention. The spark. Creativity as a way of being and not just the action of sitting down to make something or write something. I talk about the magic of dialogue, concluding by putting out the extraordinarily uncomplicated idea that all moments in life are art. And then I pose this question:
Can you identify where you feel moments of spark in your own life?

Now, where are yours?

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  • tara.agacayak

    Hi Rose. I must tell you, your talk to our group of professional women in Istanbul was terrific. I have lots of notes from the event and really enjoyed thinking differently about how I work. The biggest thing I came away with from your talk (and what I would call a spark) was the idea of fluidity between work and home life. Transitioning from an office job to working from home, I feel compelled to give myself office hours and continue to work to a schedule. But you made me shift my thinking to consider of all my hours as office hours since everything I do as a creative entrepreneur contributes to my work – be it ironing, washing dishes, or writing a blog post. Thank you for helping to change my perception. You gave me a great gift.

  • rose deniz

    Thanks, Tara, it's really meaningful to me that you got so much out of my talk. Fluidity is a great way to describe it, and out of the everyday stuff is where great ideas happen, I think. When we're not trying to force an idea to mature. Elevating the ordinary to extraordinary makes it less work and more pleasure.

  • Katie Belliel

    Your talk struck a particular chord with me, as my life changes from primarily work centered to a more 'domestic' track. I sometimes feel scared that I will lose my creativity by staying at home to be a mom. Hearing your talk and your own experience as you struggled to redefine creativity in your own life (and as an expat) has truly inspired me. Whether I am decorating the baby's room, scrubbing floors, or jotting down brief journal entries, I am doing something creative. Thanks so much for sharing these insights with our group!

  • anastasiaashman

    I enjoyed the talk too, Rose and discovered in the drawing exercise that I have a monkey claw for a hand (but the one drawn when the paper was masked from my "view" had so much more vibrancy and a set of proportions I would never have chosen). As a writer I know that my best work comes when that self-editor's view is masked….and your talk reminded me of that connection in every moment we live. Everything can be a source of inspiration — and an act of inspiration in itself.

  • rose deniz

    It's exciting for me to know that people with different professions are able to relate to the exercise and talk… Tara, you as a creative entrepreneur, Katie as a writer and Anastasia as writer/cultural producer. Thank you for sharing your experiences and for offering real examples of how a change of perception can benefit us all.

  • Lisa Johnson

    I'm really sorry I missed your talk, Rose!

    I was recently reminded how we are surrounded every day by objects and activities that can inspire us and give us new ideas. I think the key to seeing this is taking off the 'judgemental glasses' that filter our perception (including self-judgement), slowing down and truly observing our environment.

  • rose deniz

    Lisa, you got the essence of the talk without having been there! The hardest part is applying it, but there might be something new and inspiring at any turn, even the parts of our day that seem the most challenging.

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